Finding the Perfect Match

When a couple or a single man/lady takes the journey of Polygamy sometimes if not almost every time it takes a while. Sometimes this can be as short as a few weeks or as long as a few years. As a couple looking think about the time when you were single and found your mate, It may have been difficult to meet that special person your with because of “matching Preference” think about all the others that you dated in the past that were not the right match. As a single looking think about the same and your own desires as to what you seek. When you enter into the Poly world, you need to match with your sister wife and husband. As a couple you have your spouse and now a new member to worry about, her likes, dislikes, hobbies, food preference, habits etc. Depending on your family, you may want to move fast or slow, but the balance falls between where you all feel comfortable. Wanting a Poly family and rushing to quickly could result in a disaster if not everyone involved is on the same page.

A few tips to help you move forward on Make sure your profile is filled out correctly, and fully, add photos and maybe some fun ones.  Be active, Log in often to check your messages and respond, if you are not interested in a family or a single that is messaging you should be honest and let them know so either party can move on. Be honest in what you are looking for this can be added in your profile. has added new features including chat and video chat that makes it easier than having to use outside video programs.

Most of all have fun with your search, stay positive and keep moving forward in the end you will match with the prefect person for your family. Having a Sister wife or a family is important, and creating the environment that you see in polygamy is important.


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Polygamy Dating | About

As some of you know has been around for quite some time, We started this website just as a nothing project to see what we could do with it in 2009 under the name of Once upon a time it was a free site, It just grew and grew with quite a lot of success to our surprise. We decided that we would keep the site up and running.
Between the years 2013-2017 was hired for casting quite a number of shows, including 2 series and a documentary, one of the series fell through in December of 2013 after quite a bit of work and we were quite upset by this, but we kept pushing. In 2016 was contacted for another casting opportunity, which we took, and then along came an additional network for a documentary that we also will appear on. Both of these will be airing this fall so stay tuned.
Last year in 2016, we discussed purchasing the .com for sister wives, however, it was at a steep cost and we waited, not wanting to lose the domain we decided that in 2017, we needed to go ahead and purchase it. As to the changeover in May 2017.
During the 7 years that has been around we have seen many blessings of family’s being completed, Many are back looking for their 3rd or more wives. To date we have seen over 100 successful matches and joining’s to families. is at the front of the online polygamy dating world and have an unmatched global reach. It is the largest 100% real Polygamy dating site that there is. We maintain and watch everything ourselves. We check every profile to make sure people are who they say they are and handle issues accordingly.  We keep a close eye out and depend on our members to help us if they are having or seeing issues. It takes every one of you to make this site as great as it is so we thank you all.
We love to be part of this community and with the right people; we can launch Polygamy into a completely new light to others that see this type of relationship in a negative light. It is all of you that make this possible.

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Who Decides our love?

Whom Decides love?

A lingering question why can we not live in a polygamous relationship? Believing in the true meaning of love, who has the right to decide whom or how many people that is and what it looks like. There are all types of relationships in the world, monogamous, open relationships, homosexual relationships, trans-gendered, Gay, bisexual, straight, Etc.

So why as a consenting adult is this allowed and accepted and not Polygamy?
I am free to choose whom to love and marry, Regardless of if it offends anyone because it is not the norm. If you remember correctly people in the LGBT culture back into the 80’s since that is as far back as I can remember, were not out in the open. Homosexual people were looked at as wrong, bad, weird and all other sorts of things.
Being in a LGBT relationship is finally accepted into our society, but not without a huge struggle to get there. Surely, there are still struggles with values that families hold at times, the judgement of others that do not agree with their lifestyle and many many other things. Nevertheless, they are free, free to be out in the open, free to love whom they choose, free to not hide and free to live their lives and there is nothing wrong with that.
So why is being in a polygamous relationship against everyone? Being Poly is not anything different than above, yet polygamists hide, shelter themselves, their children for fear of prosecution, Losing their children, careers, homes, friends, family. Why because others see it is wrong, disgusting, cheating, against the grain of what our society deems “normal”. Being in a committed relationship with one or multiple people is not wrong in any way if everyone is on the same page.
If everyone in the specific relationship, agrees and is ok with bringing in another partner weather male or female what is wrong with that? When a person is in a sound mind, not under the influence of a substance, and clear in the decision chosen he/she should be free to make that choice. Whos right is it to tell you that you cannot have that. Why is it up to the “system” to say no it is against the law, and you can be prosecuted, why when you are a legal abiding citizen this is the risk because of who you love?
The term Polygamy in itself is not all a bed of roses; there are a few things in my opinion that are a problem. The compounds/sects with multiple FLDS members, who follow some of the “profits” that are marrying off young minor children. The abuse that takes place in those situations is not ok, that is not Polygamy it is abuse and extremely wrong on every level.
Polygamy is a choice or a calling for many and as an individual you need to make that choice for yourself by being of legal age to do so, Polygamy should never be forced on anyone due to religion or beliefs. This should be on the individual making that sound choice.
Any polygamist family who has multiple partners and children because let us be honest many families in this world have quite a number of children, which is great if you can afford them. Applying for Governmental assistance as a poly family is not something that should be taking place.
As a family, decisions such as these need to be discussed as a group before having multiple children; if you cannot afford 10-20 children, you should not be having them. Adding children should be discussion in which every adult member is comfortable. These are two of the biggest issues I feel need to be addressed in polygamy.
However, many blessings come along with living in a plural marriage/commitment, multiple people for household duties, Lots of laughs, Commitment, Child rearing, and additional income for necessities. Being in a plural relationship can be a very magical thing. On the other side, if something devastating happened in the family and there was a death, there would be more than one parent that truly cares and loves each other to raise the children as a team. Having a best girlfriend an additional spouse that you are able to share your, thoughts, feelings, family, children and spouse with does work for many families.
When will it be that Polygamy is accepted as a personal choice? What is it that needs to take place, rallies, protests, and appeals to senators? Remember what the LGBT had to go through, maybe in the coming days, months, and years polygamy will be viewed as a choice, a free choice. As law abiding, tax paying, working citizen’s polygamists deserve the right to be happy, fulfilled, out of hiding, and free to make this choice. If you are looking for a Family or a female to join your family, or are just starting out visit there are many wonderful people there. is a great place for community support, knowledge, a great platform for friendship and your potential forever family.


Biblical Plural Marriage is Ok for Christians!

The fundamental Argument for Christian’s in a Polygamist Marriage

One of the most important argument from the Holy book that Christian plural matrimony is permitted is the fact nowhere in the Bible is it CERTAINLY NOT permitted, or criminalized, or punished, or even talked against. Seriously.

To be fair, you’ve probably noticed stories taught in house of worship that are held up as examples, or evidence texts, or justifications for monogamy, and as all of us in the West came of time in a culture that suppresses polygamy, keep in mind that take much ‘convincing’ for people to nod and simply accept our teacher that certainly, in fact, that does indeed ‘prove’ it.

On expression, though, those examples fall season apart, and are easily shown to not ‘prove’ anything. Not if most likely seriously interested in logic and facts and what constitutes substantiation.

The first step in apprehending what the Holy book really teaches about matrimony is to realize that the entire case against polygamy on the western part of the country is based on inferences sketched from individual stories and the occasional proof text message that is generally about marriage but not specifically about polygamy. There is no verse in the Bible that says Our god disapproves of polygamy.

In the event that your response to that is “yeah, but… very well, you are have a hard time with this. The Bible is chock packed with express prohibitions of manners, including criminal sanctions completely up to the fatality penalty for inappropriate marriage or sexual relationships. A single might feel that if The almighty had an issue with plural marriage He might have mentioned it at least once somewhere in the scriptures. But This individual didn’t, and the stop is deafening. Allow that sink in….

Once you get used to the idea that the Scriptures has no express forbidance of or punishment for polygamy, Step Two is to comprehend that in the scriptures polygamous men are routinely held up as being patriarchs and exemplars of the faith, with no critical mention made from their family situation. There are lots of examples of this, but the most clear one of the bunch–jaw shedding, really, if you haven’t thought this through before–is King David.

2 Samuel 12:7-13 – And Nathan said to David, Thou art the man. Thus saith the LORD God of Israel, I anointed thee king over Israel, and I delivered thee out of the hand of Saul; And I gave thee thy master’s house, and thy master’s wives into thy bosom, and gave thee the house of Israel and of Judah; and if that had been too little, I would moreover have given unto thee such and such things. Wherefore hast thou despised the commandment of the LORD, to do evil in his sight? thou hast killed Uriah the Hittite with the sword, and hast taken his wife to be thy wife, and hast slain him with the sword of the children of Ammon. Now therefore the sword shall never depart from thine house; because thou hast despised me, and hast taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be thy wife. Thus saith the LORD, Behold, I will raise up evil against thee out of thine own house, and I will take thy wives before thine eyes, and give them unto thy neighbour, and he shall lie with thy wives in the sight of this sun. For thou didst it secretly: but I will do this thing before all Israel, and before the sun. And David said unto Nathan, I have sinned against the LORD. (emphasis added)

With this passage, Nathan is facing David for the fatal double sin of marriage act and murder, after David knocked up Bath-Sheba and then had her partner killed in an make an effort to avoid the effects of his adultery. Consequently, David gets a fitted and just punishment: Since he took another male’s wife in secret, The almighty will take his wives or girlfriends before his eyes (which did happen later). Since David had Uriah slain with the sword, Our god promises that the blade will never leave David’s house (and several of his sons were later killed).

But look at what happened because inner part: “I gave thy master’s wives into thy bosom. ” Inside the charge against David, one of God’s gripes is the fact he acquired already given David a bunch of wives, and could have cheerfully given him more “if that got been too little”. Possess you ever gone again to God and said, “Thanks for the gift idea, but it’s not enough, I want more. inch? Seems pretty far-fetched for us, but that’s just what God’s inviting here. This individual previously blessed David in so many ways, and would have been prepared to do more, so there was never any need for David to steal Uriah’s “one little ewe lamb”.

What was God’s judgment of David’s life? Oh, right: “A man after [God’s] own heart” (Acts 13: 22), who “did that which was right in the eyes of the LORD, and flipped not aside from any thing that he led him all the days and nights of his life, save only in the subject of Uriah the Hittite” (1 Kings 15: 5). According to the Scriptures, David’s eighteen or so wives were not a problem.

So with David, we have a man after God’s own center, doing everything right besides for that one thing, and God says that other than that one thing, David did nothing at all contrary to God’s tips. Further, God says this individual gave David a lot of wives and would have given him a bunch more if David would have just asked. Would God have done that if He got a problem with polygamy?

There is no sole prohibition of polygamy in scripture. Instead, approved men and women are shown as polygamous without critique or comment from Goodness (at least not for their polygamy, whatever otherwise they may have become in trouble for), and God gives men multiple wives when it suits Him to accomplish this.

The third and final step up this process is that once you understand that the Holy book doesn’t show us The almighty condemning or criticizing polygamy, and in fact This individual appears to be fine with it, providing multiple wives on occasion, then you start wondering how it came to that the institutional church in the West so strongly rejects plural marriage. Discover hope for that question that we’ll develop in more detail elsewhere on this site, but the short version is that a reasonably quick research of church history will identify when and how and why the concept of legally-enforced monogamy crept into the church and then took over. In which reason we all progressed up thinking this way; it just doesn’t always have whatever to do with the Bible.


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The Polygamist

TLC’s Sister Wives, Has it Own Dating Site!

Hey Guys, So I was doing some research on polygamy dating and I came across some exciting news! Seems Sister Wives or someone Affiliated with TLC or the Series started a Polygamy Dating website, and I checked it out for my self to see how legit it was and if it is a good place to start your search if you are a single women looking for a polygamist relationship.

Well My Answer is Yes! But I would say to Hold off until they have more women if you are a couple as the Single Women to Couple Ratio is a little high, as in they have 2 couples for every single woman.

However if you are a single woman, than I would say go for it, the site free for single women so you have nothing to lose.

Oh The Name of the Site is SISTERWIVES.COM . If you want to start a polygamist family like me or the Browns than I would say that is probably a good place to start. I wouldn’t recommend FB Groups as they tend to be less productive and finding or becoming a sister wife.

Disclaimer: We were unable to contact TLC to confirm if Sister Wives Dating belongs to them, but from my research it seems possible.

The Polygamist